tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-466899461500603648.post629229906541395654..comments2024-02-27T04:36:01.894-08:00Comments on life of lo.: Do you remember?life of lo.http://www.blogger.com/profile/05844611601214786337noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-466899461500603648.post-55945699586641575602015-11-07T02:36:59.956-08:002015-11-07T02:36:59.956-08:00I think there is no "right" or "wro...I think there is no "right" or "wrong" way to go through the stages of grief. There is no timeline and is unique to every individual. Also, the way people grieve is so personal as well. I can't understand why anyone could and would say "you aren't grieving in the right way." That only means that you're not grieving in the way that person is or would be if given the same situation. I am someone who, especially at first, needs a lot of down-time. People have told me in the past that I should go out to have a change of scenery, and that it will help the process. Though, I can absolutely see why this would be helpful to others, it does the opposite to me. I need to be in a familiar place, not out in the public to deal with the early stages of loss. I am also not someone who wants to watch sad movies or listen to sad songs while grieving. I set the tv show Friends on repeat n dvd and wrap myself in the most comfy blanket, create a cozy environment at home and just watch episode after episode (even though I have seen them all 400 times). The fact that I have them memorized is actually a plus, because I can't concentrate on new material anyway. I think everyone should really listen to what the person who is grieving really needs and not push their own way onto others.Happylife38https://www.blogger.com/profile/02772272840318391793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-466899461500603648.post-21272589048722595892014-09-29T20:58:04.000-07:002014-09-29T20:58:04.000-07:00Beautiful blog sweetie, even though Micah would ha...Beautiful blog sweetie, even though Micah would have said it was gay. LOL-- Loved that boy. Your family remains in my prayers.Wendy Charlesworthnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-466899461500603648.post-74639230682436012602014-10-20T15:11:33.000-07:002014-10-20T15:11:33.000-07:00Just want to say thanks for the blog. I lost my br...Just want to say thanks for the blog. I lost my brother four years ago. Not always sure how I'm "supposed" to feel. Hope to see more from you!Rachaelnoreply@blogger.com